What everyone asks themselves, 

What is a heathly relationship?

A healthy relationship, is someone you can come to no matter what,

those words are clique and repeatative.

I just cant help but laugh when I hear those words, because it is so much more than that.

Its a relationship where you feel safe in a chaotic world runing rapid all around us.

It a place where wounded soliders go to lay there heads and rest their weary souls. 

A healthy relationship romantic or just friends, is something that is comfortable.

A place of understanding, open-ideas, and laughter

Its with people you know will respect your opinions

Who will go out with you happy or sad.

Someone who is there to hold you or just sit with you in the silence 

A supporter, who helps you get through dark times,

Life isnt always sunshine and rainbows,

it gets tough, we fall and try to move on 

However, sometimes we need help getting up and a heathly relationship

would help you get through that.

A healthy relationship, can even yell and fight once in awhile,

it honestly is allowed...

We all stress in life and we all blow up sometimes because we hold it on in,

In all the choas of losing it, people fight about something because they still care about you

they care about what bothers them, 

Most of the time it has to do with you, so they care.

It is a relationship that has grown to love one another,

You show compation about insecurities 

You help bulid their strength and self confience 

where if they are at a level too weak to walk on their own,

you help them stand on their own two feet

as if walking as a child for the first time.

Its someone who listens to you when you are crying by your beside screaming because

you cant seem to shake this feeling of unhappiness,

Support, understand, open arms, love,  is something so key to any health relationship,

its a life time bond bulit by two people confiding in each other. 

I feel like that is what a health relationship would be..