Good Enough
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In a world of “be yourself”s and “you’re the best you”s
There comes a day
When the message arrives
Subtle but all the same clear
There to tell you that all those motivational phrases
Are no more than complete and utter hogwash
Yes, the message arrives
In its own special way
Perhaps on your last APUSH exam
Or ACT scores
But regardless of the messenger, the message remains obvious and clear
“You’re not good enough”
The words will not appear written anywhere
They’ll be but a mere whisper you hear
Probably somewhere in your subconscious
Though it may just be Dr. Hosmer’s voice carrying across the room
But in any case, the words come
Harsh, cold, and there to remind you
“You’re not good enough”
Yes, we’re raised in a world of “be yourself”s
But what if the self that if your self
Is not as good as the self that is her self?
I mean, the self that is her self taught herself how to play piano at the age of five
In the spare time she had between her calculus class and her part time job rescuing refugees from troubled countries
Meanwhile the self that if your self spent your childhood
Trying to catch all 150 Pokémon
And still failing because you had no one to trade with
The self that is your self is suddenly thrust into a world
Where good grades are okay and perfect grades are barely cutting it
Where people start to go by score rather than by name
Where Harvard and Yale and Princeton and a thousand other places
Swirl around your head in a repeated fog
All while you’re trying to catch your breath
Meanwhile the message hangs clear above your head
Flashing in neon letters
“You’re not good enough”
No, not nearly enough
You suddenly find yourself struggling in a race
You didn’t know you’d entered
Where that one club you joined isn’t going to cut it
And those hours spent tending your grandpa’s garden don’t mean a thing
Because you could have been out there
Being the “best you you can be”, only better
Because now it’s written in the clouds
It’s on every paper
And every wall
And every counselor’s face
“You’re not good enough”
Until one day
The self that is yourself
Takes a breath
And learns to do the hardest thing
By lowering your expectations
And accepting your limitations
And learning to smile at what you can do
Instead of crying at what you can not
That’s the day
That the self that is yourself
Will finally look in the mirror
Shoulders squared
Head held high
Eyes dry
And be able to say
“I’m good enough for me”