Are we actually equal? Do women get the same privileges as men do? 

No.

Now, why is that? Why is that when a women is directing, she is considered bossy, but a man is considered a leader? Why is that women are shunned for wearing little clothing? Why is that women are blamed for rape when they had no choice of the act?Why, why, why?

Why is it that a partnership between two women is considered a sexual pleasure, but for men, it is considered love; can two women not produce love? Oh, but when women do emote love, they are considered "clingly" and "whiney."

Why is it that when a woman says no, she is called a "bitch", but saying yes she is labeled as a"slut"? Why is that women are shamed for every choice they make sexually?

To a man, a woman is an object. Women are meant to sit pretty in their dresses that can't be above their knees because that is too "slutty" but can not exceed below the knee because that would mean they are a "prude". They are meant to be not smarter than a man because the man is the one who provides and the woman cannot out smart him, but they cannot be uneducated. They are meant to look perfect, like dolls on a shelf, but if they wear make up, lose too much wieght, gain too much wieght, that is wrong and not in the standards for men. Women are to sexually please a man, but not so much to the point of being labeled a "whore". 

Why is that a man can sleep with as many women as he wants and be praised, but a woman is shunned for such activity? Why is that men are not blamed for their actions that women are so often blamed for?

We are not eqaul because to a man, a woman is a object to have sex with, be more powerful and smarter than, and to always win against.

And if that doesn't sicken you, I don't know what else could.