Skin Deep
It means something when someone tells me I’m beautiful
because inherently as humans we focus on the negative and the positives seems so small
living in a world where physical beauty is king
and hatred is so prevalent
We sometimes need to take a moment and just love ourselves
But sometimes self love comes from the love of others
Because beauty
it isn’t just about physical appearance
It isn’t about the amount of makeup we do or don’t wear
It isn’t about how people physically perceive us
and yes that does play a part don’t get me wrong
But really
We just want to feel acknowledged
To know people see us
They really see US
There’s beauty in everything they tell me
But sometimes that’s hard to see
and I need someone to remind me
that I am someone
someone to be proud of
someone that embodies beauty in the way she walks and talks
but it isn’t solely my physical appearance
that makes me beautiful
That it’s the creases in my smiles
but also the way I nervously chuckle at my own jokes because I’m not the most likable person
because I know not everyone loves me
but in that moment
when someone acknowledges my beauty they are my number one fan
Beauty is only skin deep and my friends always tell me that
But sometimes it gets tough seeing the models in the magazines
Perfectly Airbrushed Beauty
and yes, the media constantly criticizes the publication industry for shaming what is considered “real women”
and yes I know what I see on tv isn’t reality
But sometimes it feels good to know someone values your beauty
I know I’m no model
I am no Cara Delevingne or Gigi Hadid
And it’s taken a while but I’ve come acknowledge
that despite what every feminist says
Beauty Isn’t Just Skin Deep
Beauty comes in different forms
and it isn’t just physical nor is it just through a person’s personality
Beauty is what one encompasses in every part of their being
We all want to feel accepted
and yes I love myself
But sometimes it feels nice to hear someone say that I’m something special
I am a confident beautiful woman
but sometimes we all need a little validation
And yes it has nothing to do with the evaluation
of my true value
And yes it goes against every feminist ideal I have grown and prided myself on
that countless individuals have fought for
But I’m only human and we all yearn to be accepted however childish it may seem
So Yes
When someone tells me I’m beautiful
It brings me joy
I appreciate it
Not because I’m seeking the approval of others
But because I’m seeking the approval of myself