But Also

Magical moments in the back of the movie theater, yes.

Showering me with gifts to show your appreciation, yes.

Picture-perfect wedding with you on your best behavior, yes.

But also

2am arguments that don’t end in bruises.

Visits to my parents, who trust you with their daughter

--who love you maybe more than I do.

You on your best behavior, always.

Because you love me.

But also

Because you would never treat a woman as anything less

Than how I would treat a man--how I treat you,

Because I love you.

Yes, we struggle to communicate sometimes.

Yes, we like to spend time alone or with other friends.

No, we are not perfect.

But also

We are happy, healthy, and full of love.