BD 07-10
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The day is still branded into my memory.
It probably always will be.
The looks on people's faces, the imploding feeling in my stomach,
Even the way the light reflected off of that picture
As you tore it off the bulletin board and stuffed it in your bag
And how the copy of that same picture I have hanging in my room
Has never quite looked the same.
I stayed there for three long years after you left us,
Fighting the ghosts that were swirling around
In the severely over-chlorinated water,
The demons that lived in the upstairs offices
Micromanaging our lives away bit by bit,
And most of all, worst of all,
The overwhelming feeling
That you never would have let any of this happen to us.
Not if you could help it.
I dragged my unwilling body and soul
Through countless hours of mental anguish
And, at the root of it all, a stinging and demanding heartbreak
That positively demanded to be felt.
You had taught us all how to be a family and how to appreciate life.
Became a second father to me and everyone else.
When you go from seeing someone every day
To never seeing them at all
In a matter of 15 minutes
It is essentially like that person died.
Except we didn't get a chance to say goodbye.
No funeral, no flowers, no glorious send-off, celebration of your work
And all of our good times together.
Instead,
We stood, crystallized in time, and watched you walk out of the door.
Stupefied. Paralyzed. Never saw it coming.
I was ripped from the life that I had created for myself
And thrown out into the proverbial ocean,
And the sharks were starving.
Just fourteen years old, time to grow up
And face the big bad world of adolescence
Without the confidance of one of the people on this earth
That knew me the best.
The time eventually came where I knew I had to leave,
Get myself away from this place that held so many sacred,
Beautiful,
And horrifying memories
All at the same time.
I couldn't forget you if I tried; how do you erase a part of who you are?
I see you in everything that I do
And still, almost four years later, catch myself thinking,
"Bryan would think that was funny"
or
"That was such a Bryan face".
You were taken from us by ill-intentioned people
Entirely too early,
And although you are still living and breathing
Whenever I happen to run into you
my whole world seems to slow down and mute itself
As if I was visiting a sacred grave.
The grave of our team, our family, our lives
And the life that I used to know.