Dear Cancer ...
Dear Cancer,
You’ve made me grieve
You still make me cry
I’ve shed tears into my pillow at night till’ my eyes were puffy and burnt out
and when I woke up and I went to school
my friends would ask, “Are you tired?,” as they saw my swollen, jaded eyes.
How could I not be upset? You took my mother’s body
And you shackled her to your disease.
You took all the energy and breath in my mother’s body and made it ten times harder to exert
You took that energy
And you took more
You took part of her trembled, working fingers and weakened and chipped their nails
You took her breast and you gashed it
You then took her hair, patch by patch
Until every strand of strawberry blonde hair was gone off her freckled body and head and above her bright blue eyes
Until my mother’s once confident and strong character
Were bewittled to insecurity and embaressment
Until I felt choked on my words and blurred in my eyes
Until I had to run and hide in my room when I felt like breaking down from just looking at her
Since the day my mother’s face and body were mangled with your aches and tubes that intertwined to machines and poles and medical bags
You tried and you tried and you took almost everything.
Of course you made me feel sorry
Who would not feel grief and madness?
You gave my mother pain and hell and you made me and my family feel pity
You did take my mother’s energy and her features
And you took years of life away from her that she can never take back
But you did not take my mom
You did not take the person who is still fighting and standing
And most people only know the worst of you
But now my mom can walk and use her own two feet
She’s grown her hair out and the color of her face is a pale lifeless hue no longer
She can work and dance and yell and do everything the average person can do
Her same character and personality beams right through
And she gives me so much more, she gives me so much so that my life is ten times easier.
And thank you for making me learn
Thank you for making me realize exactly what I have in front of me
A mother that works hard and cares for me and has fought through deprivation
And you’ve taught me to be nicer, to be a million times more thankful and kind and supportive to my mom
I will give her more than what she’s given to me all my life, I will make her happy and I’ll make sure I’ll persevere in life and do everything in my power to offer
So that my mom’s feet don’t hurt and her back doesn’t give in
So that she’ll see me walking across the stage with a hat and gown and she’ll see me succeed
Whether it’ll be a couple of feet away from me or right above me, she will see.
But I know my mom is still lively and hopeful
And because of that I will be too
She’s been through the worst
And she’s washed away the blood, tears, and discharge you left
I cannot stay mad or hurt at you
And neither can she
She took in everything hurled at her
She took in the worst
At the end of it all,
She’ still breathing
She’s still thriving
She’s alive.