The Difference

I thought it was love because we were together for years

And because he acted like he cared

For a while

And when he stopped caring

I thought it was normal

I let him use me

Because I thought it was love

But that’s not love

Love is when you call me to make sure I’m drinking enough water

Or when you come to visit and play with my dog

Love is staying faithful despite 500 miles

And planning for the future

Love is stupid phone calls

Complaining about tests and money

And ending it smiling and laughing

Because your laugh is contagious

Love is respecting my boundaries

And not pushing me to change

Love is recognizing my scars

And helping me heal them

Love is learning more

When we don’t understand

And accepting each other

No matter what

Because you love me

You put up with my family

Even when they treat you poorly

You take it in stride

Because you love me

And because I love you

I wish I was there to protect you

Because I love you

I know your fears

And I do my best to comfort you

As you do for me

Because I love you

I will always be here

Love is knowing that we aren’t perfect

We are flawed, scarred, and human

But I am hopeful

Because I love you