To Kiss or Not to Kiss
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To kiss or not to kiss: that is the question:
Whether tis worth the risk to bear
The possible heartbreaks or knots in the stomach,
Or to prevent this inevitable disease of love
By avoiding it all. To pause, to wait -
No touch - and by waiting we can prevent
The shattering of feelings, and the broken dreams
That we imagine with this person. Tis a skill we all
Wish to acquire. To pause, to wait -
To wait - perhaps to wait too long: ay, there’s the rub,
Tor in waiting too long, one may lose the chance
Of falling for “the one”, he who really is.
When one chooses to avoid this intimacy,
Must give us pause. There’s the respect
That makes calamity of boldness
For who would bear the whips and scorns of deceitful love
Th’ abusive boyfriends’ wrong, the proud husbands contumely
The pangs of possible break ups, the true loves’ delay
The insolence of those envious and the spurns
That patient girlfriends merit of th’ unworthy takes,
When she herself might her quietus make
With a sudden slap to his face? Who would fardels bear
To give and give, yet never receive
But that the dread of what much patience will bring
The concealed future, from whose heart
Shall never excite, puzzles the will,
And makes us rather bear the strong emotions we have,
Than fly no none - none at all?
Thus conscience does make risk-takers of us all,
And thus the native hue of retreat and carefulness
Is sicklied o’er with the pale cast of thought
And enterprises of great caution and prudence
With this regard their currents turn awry,
And lose the name of action.