Look Deeper

Being able to see a girl's true beauty is a power that unfortunaetly not every guy possesses. Every day, a million of girls' hearts of broken because of some jerk who she thought was "the one" just because he was a star athlete, or he knew how to make her tick. Truth is, the image of the typical guy is worsening by the day, and it's not necessarily the ladies' fault. Although most people don't realize it, guys are very much like girls when it comes to relationships. We love being complemented, and love the feeling of knowing that there's someone who cares about them and loves them in a very special way. There's nothing weird about it, that's just the way we were created. But what most guys dont realize is that although some girls may show no sign of passion, every girl craves the love and attention from another man (or woman) that they deserve. Now maybe knowing a girl for a short time and hooking up may seem like fun, it's not always the best way to approach a relationship. Most guys think that looking and acting cool is the way to a girl's heart, but they never stop to really appreciate her. It's very true that even though some people are alot alike, maybe even identical when it comes to looks, everybody is different, there is something special and unique about each and every person on this earth, and as a guy, it's your job to find out what it is about a girl, and let her know that you notice it. It could be a beautiful smile that can brighten up your day, or eyes that are so magical, you get lost in them every time you look at her. If you polled every guy in America and asked them to answer honestly, the amount of guys who would date (etc.) a girl who has an amazing body is staggering, unbelieveable almost. There are probably millions of girls out there who may not be the most attractive when it comes to physical traits, but have the personality of an angel who are probably unnoticed by all the guys around her, and to be honest it's a shame. Guys complain that girls aren't "real" anymore, but the question is, do you plan on doing anything about it? Maybe instead of making fun of a girl because she looks funny or her body isn't how you want it to be, you could complement her on how she (unlike yourself) puts others before herself, and doesn't judge anybody. Now I'm not just writing this out of observance, I'm also writing this out of experience. All my life, I was told that if you ever have the lucky opportunity of obtaining the key to a girl's heart, you better protect that key with your life because if you ever lose or break that key, you better hope she is forgiving because a girl's heart is not to be messed with. Now I haven't been in a million relationships like some people have, however, the few that I've been in, including the one I'm currently in, I make sure I let my significant other know that I will fight for us, and do everything in my power to gain all your love, respect, and most importantly trust. I don't just want to be your boyfriend, I want to be your best friend who you can always turn to. I'm not gonna go on and on about my love life, but what I can say is that I truly believe that my current girl friend is "the one". She's perfect in every way, and we have so much in common, it's hard to believe someone like her exists, but she does and I'm thankful for her every day. But back to my point. Guys need to take a break from staring at a girl's body and take a good look into her eyes. Find out who she REALLY is and what she's REALLY about. A girl is like a delicately wrapped gift. It's up to you to do the unwrapping and find out whats really inside.