Love isn't 

"if you don't have sex with me

you don't love me"

Love isn't

"you aren't allowed to follow him,

block him"

Love isn't

"you are not allowed to wear that,

take it off"

Love certaintly isn't

"I'm sorry I hit you,

I promise it won't happen again"

Love isn't

"you have gained too much weight

lose it our I'll find someone prettier"

Love is 

communication

trust

snuggling in pj's

a bright future

compromises

and it should feel like

home.