Love or Infatuation

Infatuation is instant desire. It is one set of glands calling to another.Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes roots and grows one day at a time. Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is quite understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows. You are warned by his presence, even when he is far away. Miles do not seperate you. You want him nearer. But near or far, you know he is yours. 

Infatuation says: "We must get married right away. I can't risk loosing him." Love says: Be patient. Don't panic. He's yours. Plan your future with confidence. 

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you know it ends in intimacy.

Love is the maturation of friendship.You must be friends before lovers. Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away you can't help but to wonder if he's cheating. Sometimes you even check. LOVE MEANS TRUST! You are clam, secure, and unthreatened. He feels that trust, and that makes him even more trustworthy. Infatuation might lead you to do things you'll regret later but, love never will. Love is an upper. It makes you a better person than you were before.