Meghan

This is the story of my sister who inspires me to live everyday to the fullest.

The hospital lights were bright. As I peered through the window, I could hardly see the tiny figure in front of me because of the glare. Machines surrounded this doll-like creature. All that I could make out were minuscule sunglasses on an even smaller face. On that September day in 2003, I didn’t realize the dramatic changes about to unfold in my life. I had a baby sister! A wonderful challenge in and of itself. However, this beautiful little girl was, as my family sometimes calls her, “a princess with Down Syndrome.” For the past 16 years, Meghan has been a worldview shifter for me, a daily reminder of the incredible value of life. Her presence has taught me compassion, patience, and gratefulness in ways I could not have experienced without her. Meghan’s physical and intellectual disabilities have produced tenacity, determination, and perseverance not only in her but in all of us who share in caring for her. I have learned to value the simple things that many high school students take for granted like staying overnight with friends, going to homecoming, or driving to a movie. While these are a daily part of my life, Meghan may never be able to do these things. This reality makes me so grateful for the opportunities I have and also much more aware of the elusive privileges that come with having a “normal” life. 

Meghan’s zest for life, despite her challenges, inspires me to take my “normal” opportunities and use them for the benefit of others.

Never take a day for granted. Everyday is a blessing.