Unknowable

Every person on Earth has an unfulfilled Longings, some of the saddest groans come from single people who would really love to be in a relationship/married. where there seem to be no good answers, like : 

Is there something wrong with me? 

Am I such a loser?

Am I that ugly? 

Am I being punished? 

Doesn't God care enough for my dreams and hopes to do anything for me?

The truth for each person is unknowable, at least till we reach heaven. But God invites people to find fulfillment in whatever their situations could be. He seems to want it both ways: " It is good for a man not to marry" because the simple fact is that, If the man cannot protect, cultivate or wash his women with the word of God it is better if the man is to be alone. many men want a woman that is made up in their heads, so they find women that appear beautiful in their image but gets frustrated at their personality.

Well, here's the funny part A woman is looking for knowledge, not just any knowledge but the knowledge her man receives because women are BIG receivers. for example:

if he gossips to her, he's going to get gossip back two times worse, but if you give her motivation he will get that also 2x BETTER.

All there is for women is to just wait for HIM to find her while she is in the presence of God because when the man does find her, she is made PERFECT and is also PERFECT in his imagination!