Pull Snap Repeat
I feel this new thing
New freedom
Independence
It runs through my fingers
Like a snake
Slithering
And it feels nice
I want to hold it away
Pass it on to someone else
They can have it
I can go back
Is this me?
This is new
I need it
I know I need it
I see that I need it
Why is it so hard?
Why is this so hard
To hold on to?
I accidentally drown it
Sometimes
I drown it and forget
That this new freedom
This independence
This fake, posed, pretend independence
Is what I need
I drink
And it’s gone
It floats away
And I’m me again
Old me
Little old me
Holding and touching
And wanting
And yearning
For something to grasp in my fingers
Something real that I can pull to me
Something that pulls
And pushes
And pulls again
Open my heart
Give it away
Pass it on to a stranger
Be my friend
Love me
But then I am close
I’m pulled in, too close
Too deep now
Where do I go?
The water rises
Panic grips my chest
Is this what I wanted?
Why did I want?
I pull back
I don’t want this
I pull away
Get away from me
Take your warmth
I don’t want it anymore
Get rid of it
I keep pulling
Pull, pull
Pull until it snaps
Do it all again
Pull, snap, repeat
Pull, snap, repeat
Pull snap repeat
Two times
Then ten
Then twenty
Then thirty
Who knows?
Maybe forty
Or a hundred
They arrive
I reach, I open, I give
And I snap
Pull, snap, repeat
When can I wear this?
When will the freedom
Fit me
Like a glove
Or a warm sweater
I’m uncomfortable
This isn’t real
It’s a glass shield
I want to love it
I want this independence
To flow through me and feel right
It’s so foreign
And strange
I know it’s good
I know it’s important
But then
Pull, snap, repeat
Pull, snap, repeat
I don’t miss him
I don’t miss him either
I don’t miss number one
Or number ten
Twenty
Thirty
But I’m cold
And I’m tired
I can’t
So
Pull
Snap
Repeat
Soon
I can
Soon
I will
Soon
I might
But not tonight
Why can’t I get a grip? Why is it so hard for me? Why can’t I dig out these tentacles in my brain, and sort them in their individual cabinets? Who let them go rogue? Get back, go back to your boxes, thoughts and ideas and desires. Put yourself back. I can’t control you. I can’t hold you in. Please, just get out. Get out of my brain. Put the harm away, keep only the good. Bury them, bury the bad. Contain it. Shove it. All of those things, just go away!
The independence is false. Why can’t I figure this out? I stitch it in, it unravels. I glue it, it falls apart. I tape, and hammer and nail and wedge and it always falls away. I wear it, but it’s fake. I fly my fake flag like a banner for a country that is pretend. I am not who I want to be. Gather it up, bury it in the dirt.
I dig my fingers in the earth. I feel the dirt in my fingers, and I feel better. Bury it.
I run through the woods. It might hurt. That’s okay. The air is free, drink it. Soak it in to the skin. It’s fresh. Refresh all of me. Shed this old skin, cover it with dirt, it’s hidden. The trees don’t care. The leaves whisper nonsense, but it’s better than words between my ears.
Bury it.