Dear Music
Dear Music,
What can I say to you
That can even begin to describe
Everything that you have done for me?
I was drowning in my depression
Depression caused by no fault of my own
Caused by no fault of the others around me
But still, nobody reached out their hand
Because they didn’t understand that they had a reason to
After all, they would say to me
“Cheer up. You don’t have a reason to be sad.”
I know I don’t have a “reason” to be depressed
But Depression can catch anyone
At any time, in any place, in any situation
Depression doesn’t have to have a reason to entangle someone
He traps anybody he wants, and he caught me
I was drowning, and because nobody understood
I continued to sink further, until I could no longer see the light
I walked by everyone I knew, pretending to be happy
I pretended because they wanted me to
They never wanted to see the truth,
Even though I’m positive some knew what the ugly truth was
The truth that I was dying inside
I walked by them, with them, through them
A fake smile planted on my face
But in reality, I had lost my glow and positivity
And only those really close to me noticed it
And they would tell me
“You have nothing that would cause you to be depressed.”
And they would start to remind me
Of the people around me that have a reason
My best friend, who no longer lives with her parents
My cousin, whose father is going to trial
And others, but they will never understand
Depression was behind me the whole time
Laughing as he watched his catch struggle
He picked a good one, didn’t he?
One that he could ensnare and no one would try to help
Because they didn’t feel they needed to
One night, I couldn’t take it anymore
The voices, the feelings, the constant urges
I picked up a blade, ready to cut my life away
But then you came along, didn’t you, Music?
You came right at the perfect moment
Sure, I had listened to you before
But never the kind I truly loved
I only listened to the kind that everyone around me did
But that wasn’t me, and you knew that
So on that night, you introduced me to the kind
That you knew would save me
Music, you gave me the part of you
That you knew would be able to pull me from Depression’s grasp
I had been listening to the Country part of you
But that didn’t help me in any way
I didn’t understand it, I didn’t relate
But then you took that part of you from me
And gave me the Emo, the Metal, the Punk Rock part of you
It started with Twenty One Pilots
And it spread to Fall Out Boy, My Chemical Romance, Three Days Grace,
And many, many others
They came into my life and jump-started it
They told me that it’s okay to be scared
And that I’m not the only one
They told me that there are others out there
Who feel the same
They gave me a way to fight Depression
They gave me something to live for
And while I haven’t completely broken free of Depression’s grasp
I’m not so far below the surface anymore
I can see the light, I can see a way out
I just have to be patient and wait for things to get better
But, Music, you knew this already, didn’t you?
That’s why you gave me that part of you.
Because you knew what I was going through,
And you knew what I would have done if you didn’t
So, Music, that brings me back to my original question
What can I even say to describe what you’ve done for me?
Depression was dragging me down by the ankle
I was screaming, kicking, but no one around me
Reached out their hand to save me, and in the end
I nearly gave up the fight
Then you came along and reached out your hand
You gave me a reason to fight again
You gave me the strength to break Depression’s hold on my foot
And begin to swim to the surface
You gave me comfort when I needed it most
You were there when no one else was
You gave me a way to navigate this crazy, messed up world
Without losing my sanity
You introduced me to a group of people
That feel the same way I do, that went through the same things
Introduced me to people who care about my life
And will be my friends and not judge me
I didn’t even deserve any of it, I know I didn’t
Simply put, Music…
You saved my life.