Mulata
When I first met my elementary school bully
She told me my braids made me look black
I wasn’t offended like she expected me to be
I grew up worshipping black women in the limelight
Identifying with the closest to a woman who looked like me on the screen
So I said, “Thank you.”
Dragging my heart on the ground below me
Because I knew it was supposed to hurt
Or maybe it was because the words didn’t come from her mouth
She told someone else to tell me
She told a girl who I shared my name with but not my complexion
This girl says, “I think your hair is really pretty though”
She admired how my great grandmother’s hands still remembered how to braid
Hers traded that ability for hair products that damage her hair
But give her a socially acceptable style to wear it in
Something like my elementary school bully
The girl with the same name as mine had only known her identity as an insult
Had always known “black” as a slur,
She knew that girls like her and I,
Girls with different backgrounds, but similar cultures
Two girls with the same name
Were meant to suffer
But it seems like some people think that girls like her and I
Girls who share cultures could not get along
That our ability to wear hoop earrings like gold medals on our ears
Is some form of a stolen identity
And that immediately eliminates the idea that we BOTH suffer
Because someone has to suffer worse
Fake “woke” twitter likes to make it look like it’s us against them
When in reality it’s still us against us
Like “she stole my culture”
But how am I stealing my own identity?
Yes, I am made up of Spanish blood
But when Columbus took our lands his people brought their slaves with them
The native people, whites and black slaves meshed together their customs
They created my mulata blood
That’s why my people practice witchcraft that looks like voodoo
That's why my lipgloss is poppin like any other black girl
That’s why my abuela’s hands still remember how to braid
It don’t matter who has it worse
And this ain’t the fight we’re supposed to be spending our energy on
Attacking each other is exactly what they want us to do
To fall apart, to cave in on ourselves
So we never become big enough to tear down their perception of “those ghetto ass girls”
Because no matter how hard we try to separate ourselves
We will always be lumped into that category
So let us grow
Let us become so big our blood becomes a tsunami of same culture
Same ancestors
Same idea that we are anything less than
The people who made our gold medal earrings “cool”
Girls like my elementary school bully
Who said my culture, our culture made us look like trash
But they’re still wearing OUR “trash” on their ears