misunderstood
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imagine the surprise on my face
as my therapist looked me in the eyes
and told me that i do indeed
have a mental disorder.
"no i don't you must be
wrong
please check that test again because
i know i gave you all of the right answers
and i know it for sure because i checked
at least 5,000 times"
i thought that mental disorders only applied
to people in mental hospitals
the ones portrayed in movies
that talk to themselves
the ones
that bang their heads against the walls
"this cannot be" "this really is a big
misunderstanding"
but the only one misunderstanding was
me.
the movies lied because i do not
talk to myself
nor do i bang my head against the wall
i acted like having this mental disorder
was a big flaw, one big
imperfection
like people would hate me and never talk to me again
when they found out i have
depression
and also
a social anxiety disorder
but again it was i that misunderstood
and as i began daily life with this disorder that i have lived with
for years
i began to see things different
because the scars on people's wrists really weren't
from their cats
and i realized
that my best friend doesn't like to eat in front of people
because she doesn't like to eat at all.
i realized that i am not the only one who cannot order their own food
when they go out to eat
and i realized that the rings around that boy's eyes
didn't come from a late night of homework
they came from many late nights filled with nothing at all
because he also has a mental disorder
except his bars sleep from ever coming to visit his small, shaken body
while mine makes me unexplainably sad
after telling people about my "imperfection" i realized
some people really just don't get it
if i had the power to stop my depression i would've flipped the switch
in the 7th grade
the year before things went down the drain
and if thinking a positive thought to counteract every negative one
really can beat this monster in my head
then why didn't it disappear 4 months ago when i drank positive thoughts
like they were the water i needed to survive
i realized that going into places that are known for large crowds
will not beat your social anxiety it will only in fact make it worse
because people in crowds do not care if you are having a panic attack
they will bump into and still ask you lots of questions
because they are the people who just don't get it.
this depression doesn't make me less of a person
it only makes me feel like less of a person
and the social anxiety doesn't make me waste away
but it makes me feel as if i have already wasted away
but i must say for myself that i have come a long way
because i now can relate to the people in the Psychology class textbook
and i know that these things are real and oh so close to home
i know that people will give you weird looks when you tell them
about your disorder
but they will not leave you they will only
come closer
i thought telling people about this monster i've been hiding
would make them look at me with disgust
but it makes them look at me with love
so i look at my friends who are also battling this monster
with love
because i know that they are struggling and i am too
i will show them unconditional love even if i am not capable of feeling love
because that is what they need
and i am not the one misunderstanding anymore
oh no
i know that is what they need
because now i understand
for sure